Constant Charmers

There are those people in life that are constant charmers. No matter where they are, what they are doing they just coerce and charm their way through life. We all know someone that seems to drift seamlessly through life touching lives with gold and charming women like a hot knife through butter.

They are the guys that we look at in envy at times when we establish that we can not quite be as productive as they are with women. They seem to get everything they want and when they get it to rub salt into the wound they cast the girl aside as if they didn't exist. Women love the excitement of a chase and a girl cast aside is determined to prove her worth to her peers.

Constant charmers are always on the charm offensive and see each challenge as another way to prove themselves to everyone around them.  They see themselves as having a reputation and when it is tarnished by the odd girl that does repel their charms, their egos are damaged. The only way to repair a damaged ego is to get back in the saddle and venture back out to charm the world.

The obscure thing about these kinds of guys though is the fact that they are actually quite vulnerable. Because they are so out there and incredibly confident of being successful, rejection hits them harder than anyone else. They take it as a personal insult as opposed to the circumstances not being right.

They are also the most resilient however when it comes to getting knocked down. Their confidence is always at the height of its powers when they see a challenge, and there is never a greater challenge for the constant charmer than when having been knocked down.

They are a complex type of person of which we all know one. But the fact remains we can create our own image of ourselves all the time, reinvent ourselves somewhat. So why can't we be the constant charmers. We can hold all the cards when it comes to chatting up a girl and why can't we build up our reputation as a constant charmer.

We could develop a wry smile when we are near a woman and when we get their attention we look deep into their eyes. The best way to a girl's heart is through the mind so look into her eyes.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to attract a woman and how to get a girl in bed.