Boosting your sex appeal! If you've decided to get out there and meet people and you're venturing out to the local clubs and wine bars (or for the technologically savvy socialites) the online dating sites, check out these neat tips to attract and keep any woman!
So how do you boost your sex appeal when it counts the most?
You could play the sympathy card, but don't overdo it and make everything about you. If you have been through a messy divorce, there's no reason not to share your problems with a new friend, but too much will become tiresome real soon. Or maybe you had a bad childhood, to a certain extent, a women's maternal instinct will kick in. The feeling of being sort of helpless will make her look at you like you're a lost puppy. The female instinct of protectiveness takes over and she will want to hold you and protect you and do anything just to make you happy. Remember how compassionate your mother was with you?
Women cherish quality time alone with the special people in their life. Simply by hanging out with her on a lazy Sunday is an irresistible turn on. Depending on the status of the relationship, just hanging out together at the beach or under the stars at night with a blanket and some champagne will instantly boost your sex appeal.
Show her your true positive side. Helping an old lady cross the street, being kind to a nervous waiter, or rescuing a neighbor's cat is all well and good if this is really your positive side and a woman always goes for a guy who is pure and honest. Putting others first sends a message to her that you are very much willing to do the same to her and she will have great respect for you.
Every woman likes to feel wanted and part of a loving relationship so make her feel she is part of your life. Tell her your dreams, ambitions, plans for the future and goals you want in your life and make it clear to her that she's part of all these and you can't live without her if she's not part of your life and future. Remember that aside from being compassionate, a woman has strong family instincts and the more secure she feels with you the more tempted she'll be to explore sex.
Women find it very sexy and thoughtful when men make use of telecommunications. You can send her a short but, loving or sexy text message or a love quote.
It's often the simple things that increase one's sex appeal. A loving email, or an upbeat phone call to her at work can make her day. A little bit of effort can reap a huge return.
About the AuthorAbout the author: Matt Fuller writes about a variety of subjects from online dating sites, social networking, casual dating tips, social media and singles chat rooms technology.
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