You've Got to Cut it Off

Are you seeing someone else? There are more and more people cheating on their partners every day and the same experiences and problems are popping up again and again. It seems that more and more people are caught between a rock and a hard place. Many cannot choose between their current partners and their bit on the side, it is an understandably hard decision but one that has to be made with promptness in mind.

There are obviously problems in a relationship if one of the couple is looking elsewhere for something they cannot get out of the relationship. But that does not mean there isn't love in the relationship and you shouldn't give it one more go. Think of how hurt your partner would be were they to find out about the affair you are having, or ultimately if the boot was on the other foot.

Cheating always comes out in the end, whether it is through mixed emotions, guilt or plain confession. And the end result is nearly always the same, the couple gets back together amid the thought of being alone and the same process is repeated. The offending member of the couple may feel guilty about the whole situation but that does not stop them repeating the offence.

So the best way to approach a situation like this if you find yourself embroiled in it is to cut if off. You need to address the problems in your relationship before embarking on a new adventure with someone else.

First and foremost it is not fair to your partner or you to keep lying to one another. But also for the fact that if your relationship breaks up without a proper dismissal of feelings and problems you will remain bitter, and what's more possibly carry over your faults to the next relationship. If this is the case it may be you that gets cheated on next time.

There is always the possibility that the situation could be resolved also, you may find that you can work things out. You may still realise there is love there and try to start over. If that is the case then it will work out best for everyone, and you can try to be happy like you originally planned.

If however you want to be with your mistress then break things off with your partner. Just don't have your cake and eat it.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.