The Bedroom Doesn't Have To Be Boring

Too much is made of the missionary position. So many people used to think the missionary position as the only way you should really have sex, but let's be honest it doesn't give you the most pleasure and isn't the only way we know. So why do we do it? Because in the beginning it is the easiest way to express ourselves in the bedroom department, we will quite happily get down to it if it meant that we don't have to expose ourselves and our passions to readily.

But as time goes on we will explore even further in the bedroom, we will quite happily move to a slightly different position once we get into our comfort zones. But why don't we do this earlier, when the passion levels are that much more intense. Try an adventurous position and you will even find you become closer for it, and then the missionary position comes with an extra advantage of closeness and intimacy.

Some positions are still seen as too taboo for every day couples, and you can understand why in certain aspects of life. But why make the bedroom boring when it is the only place you are ever really private and intimate with each other completely. Try those fantasies you have been wanting to try, and be open minded to certain things.

You are both already seeing each other in your purest form and if you are not running a mile then you must be comfortable with each other. Use these comforts to your advantage, make each other aware of what you want to do and explore it. What have you got to lose? Absolutely nothing, don't do anything that makes either of you too uncomfortable but really try to satisfy each other.

The bedroom does not have to be a boring place, and in fact it is probably the one place you should feel most comfortable in. If you want the use of additional toys and props then why not try it out, the world is really your oyster when it comes to sex. If you don't speculate you won't accumulate, if you stay too much in your comfort zone you won't get everything you desire.

So pull down that stiff upper lip and let yourself go. Give yourself a new lease on life and work hard to help each other. You never know you might enjoy it.

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larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.