When you finally get that girl to go out with you that you have seeked and pursued for so long it is important that you follow one golden rule. Obviously there is never cheating or doing something that would endanger the relationship, but behind that there is a hidden gem.
Never talk about her friends in a way that makes you out to be attracted to them. If they ask you a question about how attractive she is, even if you think she is attractive, lie. Make sure she never finds out because it will plant seeds in her mind that will inevitably grow into bigger problems. Believe me when I say that you really will regret telling the truth in this instance.
When looking through Facebook photos or photos on her phone with your girlfriend never say she looks nice or any positive comments. Any way in which you could send the suspicion that you may even be remotely attracted to one of her friends is a definite no. The same has to be said about family members.
You have to remember and recognise the fact that these girls compare themselves to each other; sub consciously or not, every single day. And any indication that their friends are superior from the guy they are with is seen as a huge insult and viewed as disrespectful. And guess who they take it out on when they learn of this betrayal?
They could never of course say anything to their friends about their behaviour so you will bear the full force of their anger and hate when it comes down to it. Never be truthful about her friends even when she is not there it is just not worth the risk. On a serious note as well it could really ruin your relationship on almost every level.
She will always be conscious of when she is around you, innocent looks and comments will be turned into voices of discontent. You will never be fully trusted around her, and even the most secure minded and confident of women may suspect you think about them during sex. Is it really that bad the comments you have made?
Of course not, but it is viewed as treason, you are her man and you are going to stay that way. So do yourself a favour and make sure you do not utter any words that could land you in trouble.
About the Authorlarry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about seducing women and how to pick up beautiful women.
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