Opposites Or The Same?

As men we are always labelled with the phrase that opposites attract, but is it really the case or do we go for someone who is just like us? It very much depends on what type of person we are, if you are happy within yourself then things will be good. If you are bitter or do not quite grasp situations greatly then you may prefer someone who is not like you.

It really is down to personal preference. But there are certainly some advantages and disadvantages to both outcomes. If you find someone who is similar to you, then you will realise all your faults and all your strong points. Now why this can be a good thing to realise the best of life with someone similar to you, it can become quite repetitive.

To be honest someone who is interested in the same things as you are can really bode well when it comes to life. You enjoy the same concerts maybe, or read the same books. All in all you are able to realise your dreams with the woman you love. But if you work together or share the same occupation, it really can become quite distressing.

You talk about the same things always, and never really get away from the place you want to. Sometimes you need some down time from work or sport, or whatever it is you do and if you cannot get that at home where will you get it? So there are disadvantages to being with someone who is the same as you.

On the contrary there is much to like about women that are incredibly different to you. It may cause problems at first with the prospect of her doing things with other people because you do not enjoy it. Or maybe your attention is elsewhere when it comes to a certain aspect of your life. Maybe you cannot talk about work with your loved one, because they do not take an interest.

But on the other hand you may also be able to get away from the topic you do from work, something you do not enjoy talking about. This will give you a sense of freedom and independence from work. So it could actually be a positive in some ways, if you approach it in the right way. Opposite or the same? No one really knows, so just go with it.

About the Author

 

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to attract women and how to get girls in bed.