You Have Tried And Found Yourself Wanting

So many times in love we are found wanting because we ruin our chances of actually finding love, and when we do we struggle to keep hold of what we love most. We become anxious and jealous as well as struggling to comprehend situations that we may be in as a result.

 There is some way in which we always find a way to ruin a good thing, we may not mean to and we may struggle to realise what we are doing until it is too late. But we all realise at some point that we have made problems and can't fix them. The majority of these problems are of our own making and there aren't any easy fixes.

We become jealous of our girlfriends on nights out, and even though we know there is nothing to worry about we still drive them away. Why we do it no one knows but we do really come out of our shell in the beginning of a relationship. But by the end of our relationship we are back in our shells, not going out as much out of fear of being cheated on.

Why we do these things are obscure and a mystery but there is genuinely no malice meant in the way we conduct ourselves in a relationship. But one thing that is for sure is that we ruin them anyway, so it matters not what the reason is that we ruin it, because we do it anyway.

We are generally our own worst enemy when it comes to relationships but it is not impossible to revert the problems that we have. So in order to keep the right reasons in a relationship, and the right fragments pieced together we need to remain strong minded. Keep your trust about you, and make sure that you have the ability to keep your relationship together.

Don't let the doubts niggle you into a state of disrepute that your girlfriend is cheating on you. There is no evidence to say she is, and more often not we worry too much so make sure that you are able to withstand any doubters there may be.

Don't leave yourself with more to worry about, make sure that you have the right attitude about you and give yourself a chance of a happy future. If you can manage to do that then you really will succeed in life.

About the Author

 

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about pick up artist techniques and pick up lines to get girls.