Social Media Has Ruined Relationships

How many times have you checked your Facebook today? Scrap that, how many times have you checked your girlfriend or boyfriends Facebook today? However many it is Facebook has become an incessant method of people checking up on their partners and what they have been up to. It really does cause a few problems for people and has become the root of many arguments across the world.

Why were you talking to him? Why were you not around mine you said you were busy, but you are on Facebook? The lists of arguments are endless when it comes to Facebook and the amount of arguments that people sometimes have. If you think this may apply to you then you need to do something about it before it's too late.

There are so many relationships now breaking up because of social networking sites that it really is becoming an issue. There are photos that no one likes on Facebook, and it really is a new media in terms of the media distribution between friends and being able to see pictures form the night before.

You need to chill out that is the best attitude. Before what you didn't know didn't hurt you, and you were quite happy in the ignorance of not really knowing what goes on, but you had trust. Now because of social networking sites we have a situation where we can see what went on through the photos that were taken.

This puts niggling doubts in our minds about who people are, the way in which someone is looking at our partner, amongst many others. And all of this leads us to mistrust our partners a little more, it isn't really fair to our partners however given the fact that nothing should have changed. We should still trust our partners and no matter what photos may go up realise that we still trust them.

If you can do that then it is ok for both of you to have Facebook and still be able to have a normal relationship, but if can be increasingly difficult as time goes on and problems arise. So there may be no way out of using social media but you can certainly temper it and control it.

Trust your partner all the same and it won't affect your relationship. Let it bother you and the social networking monster will eat you up.

About the Author

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to pick up women and how to get women into bed.